Commitment

Love Bombing and Crack Candy: How To Tell If You're With An Unavailable Man

In this Periscope replay: spiritual coaches Cheryl and Sophia brunch talk SPECIFIC things to watch out for when dating someone who comes on strong, then pulls a 180.

Emotional whiplash isn't fun - here are some red flags to keep your heart from being pulled like a puppet!

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Is it normal for men to pull away?

NO.

It's called love bombing, it's hurtful and it's not okay. Here are ways to spot it before it pulls the rug out from under you.

Need to heal from a love bomb? Want to get off crack candy? Book an INTRO SESSION HERE!

All Your Sex & Relationship Problems in One Word

Plastic surgery. Diet/erection/libido/anything pills. The Game/The Neg/any get-laid-quick scheme.

Marrying and divorcing as often as you trim your nails.

Paying for sex/intimacy/conversation/anything that humans are wired to do for free.

It all comes down to one thing.

Laziness.

There. You can save thousands in therapy bills now. 

Your Obsession with Feeling Good Is Keeping You From A Real Relationship

Everyone watches Oprah, does yoga-hip-hop (#realthing) and Instagrams inspirational quotes. They're told they no longer have to feel shitty. Everyone has a chance to quit their jobs, divorce their spouses, fuck who they want, and live their dreams. DOWN WITH THE OLD!

But this is only the first stage.

Following good feelings is only ONE aspect of the diamond we call soul transformation.

Unfortunately, it's the shiniest one. And now modern culture is stuck on it.

What Surrender Really Looks Like

Are you ready to sit with pain in your heart and not a single assurance that you still have a relationship - without losing hope?

Are you willing to surrender every shred of your ego in the name of love?

Are you ready to hurt so bad, you wonder who you are, to feel so lost you cry every day, to show up broken and realize you're actually strong?

The answer is No.

How Surrendering Gave Me Everything I Ever Wanted

No, I'm not one of those Independent Women who opens my own doors to a Beyonce soundtrack. I've always been a relationship girl: my goal in life to meet and marry my soulmate.

Instead, I had one turbulent failed relationship after another. I'm talking pan-throwing, wall-punching, labia-tearing (don't ask) turbulent.

Why I Hate "Get Him to Commit" Advice

Why I Hate "Get Him to Commit" Advice

When I first got to Hollywood, I had perky boobs and the face of a teenager. I definitely got attention - entirely from mid-30-year-olds with shifty employment. The kind who go after 20-year-olds with perky boobs.

I couldn't find a committed boyfriend if I hired one...