dating advice

Why Coaches Give the Worst Dating and Breakup Advice

So I'm a coach - and I have completely stopped going to life coaches to talk about my dating or relationship life. 

In this video I give three real life examples of how life, biz and spiritual coaches give horrible dating and breakup advice - and who gives better advice!

Also catch a glimpse of the guy who has Sophia's heart! 

Make sure you follow me on Periscope to catch my broadcasts LIVE - and ask questions!

Dating Myths Busted Podcast: You Need To Be Happy Alone Before You Can Be In a Relationship

We're back with another dating myth busted - this time as a podcast! This myth is like a rap lyric: sounds good to music but makes zero sense. HAVE A LISTEN:

Hint: You can click on the bottom gray soundwave bars (below the line) to leave a comment at that particular place in the recording. TRY IT! And let me know what you think about this topic.

Sick of the myths that coaches perpetuate? Ready for something different? Get Sophia's Starseed Shamanizing HERE!

Men Stepping Up & Women Not Putting Up

I'm touring the best coaches from around the world and bringing them to you LIVE on #nomad2015!

You work nonstop on your self-development, you read all the personal growth books and take those courses. But you have trouble finding men who can step up in the same way. WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT IT?

Energy Healer and Coach Sophia Chang invites special guest Love Coach Trenia Parham for a Periscope of real talk and tips.

Are you sick of putting up and want to know what your next steps are? Book an INTRO SESSION HERE!

Love Bombing and Crack Candy: How To Tell If You're With An Unavailable Man

In this Periscope replay: spiritual coaches Cheryl and Sophia brunch talk SPECIFIC things to watch out for when dating someone who comes on strong, then pulls a 180.

Emotional whiplash isn't fun - here are some red flags to keep your heart from being pulled like a puppet!

For more support: www.sexlovestory.com

Follow Sophia on Twitter & Periscope: @thesophiachang
Cheryl: @SoulfulInterior

Is it normal for men to pull away?

NO.

It's called love bombing, it's hurtful and it's not okay. Here are ways to spot it before it pulls the rug out from under you.

Need to heal from a love bomb? Want to get off crack candy? Book an INTRO SESSION HERE!

Sophia's Dating Myths Busted: LIVE on Periscope!

Calling all refugees from dating apocalypse! Give me your myths, weary and outdated, and I'll bust them live on Periscope - often with a fun guest! @thesophiachang

© 2015 Sophia Chang Photo by Megan Pangan

© 2015 Sophia Chang Photo by Megan Pangan

I am now taking requests for any topic about dating, relationships, sex and all the things men and women do with/to/at each other.

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Breaking Up is Hard To Do…3 Tips from The Dating Trenches

I share this story with all of you who are going through a breakup, have gone through a breakup or have a friend who’s trying her best to make it through Valentines’ Day without gaining twenty pounds.

Put bluntly, breaking up is hard to do.

And it’s especially hard if the relationship ends in the first three to six months.

I’d like to share 3 tips from the dating trenches to help you through heart-ache and to understand why the pain can feel more excruciating at three months in than at three years

Sophia's Debut Article on Elephant Journal

After my toxic relationship this year, I almost gave up. I poured my raw soul into what I called The Last Personal Ad I'll Ever Write. Now an international journal has picked it up. 

I hope it helps you honor your desire to see your dreams come true. CLICK BELOW TO READ:

Women DO Love Assholes - But Not for Why You Think

Women DO Love Assholes - But Not for Why You Think

This is for the ladies who love the bad boys.

Who've stayed too long with unavailable men because the sex was damn good. (Hand raise.)

And yes, fellas who can't get away from crazy chicks, you're included too.

I want you to know:

You're on to something.

What We Need to Learn From Douchebags

All Your Sex & Relationship Problems in One Word

Plastic surgery. Diet/erection/libido/anything pills. The Game/The Neg/any get-laid-quick scheme.

Marrying and divorcing as often as you trim your nails.

Paying for sex/intimacy/conversation/anything that humans are wired to do for free.

It all comes down to one thing.

Laziness.

There. You can save thousands in therapy bills now. 

"Mohawk Preferred": How to REALLY Make a Dream Guy List

Be very careful what you put on your dream guy list. Here's why:

IT REALLY WORKS.

Do's & Don't's

DON'T: Include physical characteristics

I don't mean "athletic "– or it's better re frame: healthy/takes care of his body– that's a lifestyle and character trait. Physical characteristics mean eye color, hairstyle, clothing, body type and similar externals.

INSTEAD: Focus on character and values

What Surrender Really Looks Like

Are you ready to sit with pain in your heart and not a single assurance that you still have a relationship - without losing hope?

Are you willing to surrender every shred of your ego in the name of love?

Are you ready to hurt so bad, you wonder who you are, to feel so lost you cry every day, to show up broken and realize you're actually strong?

The answer is No.