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5 Sex & Love Things to Try During Venus Retrograde

Because the Universe loves us soooooo much, Venus is in retrograde right now until September 6, 2015. Before you panic for a week like I did, here are 5 things to try in your romance life. Like birth control, pick the one that fits:

for singles:

1) CELIBACY

I hate this one as much as you do. Venus is in Leo too, so if you're feeling it then you're out attracting all sorts of mates with your siren call, you sexy mother. But trust me on this one - you want to think twice before you romp, particularly from late August until the end of retrograde on September 6. 

2) YOUR EX

This is usually as palatable as a wart on your face, but if it was truly the best relationship of your life, you've both grown as people, and/or it's always just been a case of inauspicious timing - now is the rare moment I'll suggest you give it a try.

possibly my favorite quote ever

possibly my favorite quote ever

3) NOT GOING BACK TO YOUR EX

If your on-and-off doesn't fall under one or ALL of the above 3 criteria, let it go honey. It may be hard because old flames tend to prance back into your life during retrogrades, but get yourself some Love Raid and spray those pests away.

 

for couples:

4) STAYING TOGETHER

But only if you take an honest look at the issues. They won't be hard to see right now - what normally doesn't bug you may annoy you more than ants in your fighter suit (sorry just saw Ant-Man). This period of time is a great opportunity to excavate once and for all.

for everyone:

5) A RELATIONSHIP OF ONE

The most important thing to do during Venus Rx is focus on yourself. You can never go wrong by turning inward during a retrograde. Take this opportunity to reconnect to your inner compass.

Has it been clouded over by worldly voices? Are you feeling confused or torn?

Don't rush into external action or answers right now. Instead, take all that love mojo you've got and lavish it on yourself.

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Are Extreme Fantasies Safe?

Genderqueer dom Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch interviewed me on mental health and kink - WATCH IT BELOW to hear the biophysical basis basis for healing in kinky sex and how your sacral chakra can give your life oomph from the bedroom into the outer world:

Do you need to heal from trauma? Want to turn your sex into your power generator? Set up a #tigermom consult TODAY

Women DO Love Assholes - But Not for Why You Think

Women DO Love Assholes - But Not for Why You Think

This is for the ladies who love the bad boys.

Who've stayed too long with unavailable men because the sex was damn good. (Hand raise.)

And yes, fellas who can't get away from crazy chicks, you're included too.

I want you to know:

You're on to something.

What We Need to Learn From Douchebags

How Surrendering Gave Me Everything I Ever Wanted

No, I'm not one of those Independent Women who opens my own doors to a Beyonce soundtrack. I've always been a relationship girl: my goal in life to meet and marry my soulmate.

Instead, I had one turbulent failed relationship after another. I'm talking pan-throwing, wall-punching, labia-tearing (don't ask) turbulent.

Sophia's Radio Debut as the Orgasm Expert

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Update: here's the recording!

We talk everything from the spirituality of orgasms to vibrating iPhone apps:

The moment my Chinese parents dreaded has arrived - I'm once more talking about bodily functions in public!

If you have any questions about orgasms, their healing power, and their myths for women, call in tomorrow (Tuesday 3/25) live on air as I make my radio debut as the orgasm expert!

The Passion Zone: Orgasmic Meditation with Sophia Chang


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