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Dating Myths Busted Podcast: You Need To Be Happy Alone Before You Can Be In a Relationship

We're back with another dating myth busted - this time as a podcast! This myth is like a rap lyric: sounds good to music but makes zero sense. HAVE A LISTEN:

Hint: You can click on the bottom gray soundwave bars (below the line) to leave a comment at that particular place in the recording. TRY IT! And let me know what you think about this topic.

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5 Sex & Love Things to Try During Venus Retrograde

Because the Universe loves us soooooo much, Venus is in retrograde right now until September 6, 2015. Before you panic for a week like I did, here are 5 things to try in your romance life. Like birth control, pick the one that fits:

for singles:

1) CELIBACY

I hate this one as much as you do. Venus is in Leo too, so if you're feeling it then you're out attracting all sorts of mates with your siren call, you sexy mother. But trust me on this one - you want to think twice before you romp, particularly from late August until the end of retrograde on September 6. 

2) YOUR EX

This is usually as palatable as a wart on your face, but if it was truly the best relationship of your life, you've both grown as people, and/or it's always just been a case of inauspicious timing - now is the rare moment I'll suggest you give it a try.

possibly my favorite quote ever

possibly my favorite quote ever

3) NOT GOING BACK TO YOUR EX

If your on-and-off doesn't fall under one or ALL of the above 3 criteria, let it go honey. It may be hard because old flames tend to prance back into your life during retrogrades, but get yourself some Love Raid and spray those pests away.

 

for couples:

4) STAYING TOGETHER

But only if you take an honest look at the issues. They won't be hard to see right now - what normally doesn't bug you may annoy you more than ants in your fighter suit (sorry just saw Ant-Man). This period of time is a great opportunity to excavate once and for all.

for everyone:

5) A RELATIONSHIP OF ONE

The most important thing to do during Venus Rx is focus on yourself. You can never go wrong by turning inward during a retrograde. Take this opportunity to reconnect to your inner compass.

Has it been clouded over by worldly voices? Are you feeling confused or torn?

Don't rush into external action or answers right now. Instead, take all that love mojo you've got and lavish it on yourself.

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Why I Hate "Get Him to Commit" Advice

Why I Hate "Get Him to Commit" Advice

When I first got to Hollywood, I had perky boobs and the face of a teenager. I definitely got attention - entirely from mid-30-year-olds with shifty employment. The kind who go after 20-year-olds with perky boobs.

I couldn't find a committed boyfriend if I hired one...